What to Expect with a New Pet: A Guide for First-Time Adopters
Written by: Pacagen Team
Reviewed by: Yang Li, PhD
Yang is a physicist, pet parent, and a scientist at Pacagen.
One of the most rewarding experiences is to welcome a new pet into your life. Whether you're considering a first-time pet adoption or purchasing from a breeder, preparation is the name of the game. Preparation is key to setting up a happy home for both you and your new pet. Here is our new pet parent survival guide - practical advice for new pet parents.
1. How do I choose the right pet for my family?
Consider your household's needs and energy levels. Do you want an active dog, a calm senior cat, or perhaps a small pet? Think about how much time you can devote to exercise, play, and training. Be realistic. Parents should look for breeds or animals known for patience and gentleness. Also, factor in the pet’s size and exercise needs to make sure it matches your living situation—especially if you live in an apartment or have limited outdoor space.
2. Set realistic expectations
Whether you are adopting a rescue dog, bringing home a kitten, or getting a pet from a breeder, expect an adjustment period. Pets need time to settle in and get familiar with their new environment. Be patient — bonding takes time, and every animal adjusts at their own pace. It is normal to feel a little overwhelmed during the first few weeks, but consistency and positive reinforcement go a long way in building a strong and healthy relationship.
3. Check for allergies
Make sure that no one in the household has allergies to animals before bringing them home. You can visit friends with pets or spend time in a shelter to assess reactions. If mild symptoms like sneezing or itchy eyes occur, consult your doctor or allergist. Many people with mild (and sometimes severe) allergies live happily with pets by using a combination of air purifiers, allergen neutralizing sprays, great cleaning habits including regular grooming, allergy medications, and designated pet-free zones in the home. Allergen Neutralizing sprays are a fantastic alternative. It's advisable to choose pets that shed less or produce less dander if allergies are a concern.
4. Preparing for adoption or purchase
First-time pet adoption requires a little homework. Research the breed or species you want and understand their needs. If you adopt a rescue dog or kitten, ask about their background and temperament. Buying from a breeder? Ensure they are reputable and ethical, providing proper socialization and health checks. In addition, you can talk to current pet owners or join online forums to learn more about what to expect and avoid common pitfalls.
5. Help Children Bond Safely with Your New Pet
Prepare kids in advance. Teach children to gently approach and interact with the new pet. Always supervise early interactions and remind kids to respect the pet’s space, especially during the first few days. Explain that pets need time to adjust, and involve them in small responsibilities like feeding or brushing to help build a bond.
6. Prepare your home
Get the essentials ready: food, water bowls, bedding, toys, and cleaning supplies. Set up a quiet place where your new pet can retreat and feel safe. Remove hazards like toxic plants, small chewable objects, or dangling cords. This step makes the transition easier for everyone. You may also want to invest in gates or crates to manage your pet's movement as they get used to the new environment.
7. Expect to have separation anxiety
Separation anxiety in new pets is common, especially for rescue animals who may have faced past trauma. To ease anxiety, establish a routine, gradually increase the time you spend away, and provide engaging toys. Calming aids like pheromone sprays or soothing music may also help. Consult a vet or professional trainer for personalized advice if anxiety persists.
8. Schedule a vet appointment early
Include a vet visit checklist for new pets in your plan: general health check, vaccinations, parasite prevention, and microchipping if needed. Ask the vet about diet, exercise, and behavioral tips tailored to your pet's breed and age. This is also a good opportunity to discuss spaying or neutering and set up a timeline for follow-up appointments.
9. Follow a survival guide mindset
A new pet parent survival guide isn’t just about supplies — it’s about patience, flexibility, and learning as you go. Be prepared for accidents, mistakes, and moments of frustration. Celebrate the small victories and remember that building trust takes time. If you have questions or need support, don’t hesitate to reach out to vets, trainers, experienced pet owners — or even us. We’re here to help at support@pacagen.com.
Final thoughts
Bringing a pet into your life is a long-term commitment filled with joy, challenges, and growth. Whether you’re adopting or buying, the key is preparation and an open heart. Check for allergies, prepare your space, and be ready to adjust as your new family member finds their place. With the right mindset, you’ll build a bond that lasts a lifetime. Embrace the journey, stay flexible, and remember that even the tough moments are a necessary part of creating a loving home.